I'm a very large plus size woman (bbw) looking for discreet times with a clean, ddf and decently endowed man (white or black) who is looking for the same. Long term fwbwould be ideal and I would like to meet in a public place at first, just to feel comfortable with you.I'm low key and shy in public, pretty open minded otherwise but also not into anything extreme. I'm married and sex is almost non existent. I am looking to meet once or twice a week, evenings after work, and maybe some weekends down the road but for now I stay busy with family on the weekends. You must host pleasefor now, it's a few years before I'd be able to host.